I don't feel any spark of chemistry. She doesn't want to delve into detail because her emotions will spiral out of control. Relationships are based on trust. Anything with this is not going down a good path. What do you suppose I do, just give him space? I'll cancel my plans to pick up my lottery winnings to meet up with him. I never really understand why people put such stupid answers on here.
Did you forget to do something she asked? I would like to use this blog to publish extracts from my book to get some feedback and potential interest. If she came in the home in a huff and threw her purse on the table, then she is probably not in a good mood. Do not faint; just say you're welcome. In other words review your actions and words for the past 24 hours but from her view point. Even if it would be so much easier — and we know it would be easier — we still shy away from letting it all out.
If she tells you that while you are discussing eachother's character flaws, then maybe she wants a 'manly' man. Men will tell you that women hold that belief because when it comes to communication women are just as bad as men. Keep it simple, short and sweet. She could be upset about things that have nothing to do with you. It means that you should shut up. Don't delve into details, just tell him you are ready to get to the next stage.
In the first scenario, she may be getting dressed for a night out. Very often, you're just a backup plan, dude. There are endless articles, books, interviews and essays dedicated to explaining the complex inner workings of the female mind in a committed relationship. Well how did they say it? Oh: This word followed by any statement is trouble. It is usually followed by the Loud Sigh and signifies that you have hurt her in some callous way. If this makes no sense don't re-read it; it wasn't you, it was me.
By doing this, women can actually cause a hell of a lot more confusion by trying to be diplomatic and nurturing, and end up frustrating themselves along with the person they are trying softly communicate with. If you look on any Facebook page and scroll down for long enough, sooner or later, you will find a meme about what a woman means when she says fine. It could stem from you not following through with something she was expecting. Yet, we still want you to ask us what is wrong and make us feel better. Maybe she got pissed at that? In fact, it means the opposite. Her best way to handle this situation is by making herself appear more hostile and uninterested in hopes that you will leave her alone. How do you interpret this or am I being over analytical? Details may only make her go into meltdown mode.
She doesn't want to argue Instead of engaging in a long, drawn-out discussion that will inevitably turn into an argument, a woman will just claim she's fine, so you stop talking. They're not having a great day. I just want you to stop talking. There are certain times you have to check in with your girl and ask permission about certain things. She Is Angry Think through everything you did today.
Pay attention to her body language. She Feels Tired If you have ever been grumpy or tired, you could probably sympathize. At the same time, saying that she does not want to talk about it implies a part of her does want to share—otherwise, why would she have hinted that something was wrong anyways? That you want her to communicate. It just means she has not let him go yet. Historically, women were brought up to be submissive rather than assertive, so passive-aggressiveness has usually been our way of trying to get our way without appearing pushy. This is not a happy phrase at all.
Because she was not fine. If you want money, get a job. She could just be a bit tired and was trying to be as nice as possible about responding. This means she wants you to work hard for the true answer. Even if I were fine. Look, I love talking to women. I just want to go shopping.