I am polite, kind, and considerate people have actually said You are the most polite person I have ever met. Indeed, it is likely that you have said to the other person that you love them, and they, overcome with joy or slightly taken aback but interested have asked why you have said such a thing. A lot of girls do crave a steady supply of compliments and self-esteem boosters, but not all girls do. So, good on you for actually coming up with something. © 2010 The Image Establishment, All Rights Reserved About LisaMarie's Company LisaMarie's LisaMarie's Follow LisaMarie on Connect with LisaMarie at LinkedIn Email LisaMarie: subject line of Psychology Today Hello, Reader: I agree time is a cultural issue. Did I believe I had a right to be angry? People with this amount of psychological rage require professional help. Because we're all looking for perfection.
I'm excited to see how you are going to bring good out of this one. The answer will tell me if you are paying attention. When someone is on the shyer side, they very well might feel incredibly awkward around you when they like you. The reality here is that God is for you. I hate my mother I hate my father I hate my sister And Germaine is a negro! A ship's captain is important. Give compliments without having to be asked. Talk about the way your partner makes you feel.
If someone is asking you this question, it might be because you're not forthcoming enough with your compliments, or you're going about your compliments wrong. Use positive and specific words. My suggestion is try to be as honest and genuine as possible. Compliments shouldn't sound like you got them off the Internet. Send compliments even when you're not around. The simple truth is you're not.
I'm sure that was just a trigger to make her rethink it all. Try to think of a specific example that you can use to support your comments. We absorb our beliefs from our parents, teachers, life experiences, books, etc. If they ask from a historic perspective what did you love about me when we first met it is what synestheter says. You're so talented and use your free time so wisely. But with you, you make me want stability.
If your best friend was just broken up with, they are likely feeling sad and experiencing low self-esteem. If there's a person in your life you're having trouble getting a read on, here are nine ways to know if they like you more than they think. I can't imagine my life without you in it. But if looks are the only thing you mention to them, the person might walk away feeling that their outward appearance is the only likable thing about them. You can then go on to list specifics. I have read many articles about why people don't like you, and why it is hard to make friends. I have come right out and asked people why they aren't interested in a friendship with me.
If you know why they are asking, give the person an encouraging answer that will lift them up. Pushing people away because you're scared they're going to trample all over you is like retreating before the war has even begun. These will result in banning, whether you're joking or not. However, there are a few weird ways to know if — even if they're not necessarily super forthcoming about their feelings. The more descriptive, the better advice the community can give you. If someone you know exhibits a lot of the above behavior, odds are good they may like you more than they're letting on. Your partner wants to know why you like them, not why you're attracted to them.
If you're a bit more flexible, it's likely you'll be happier and more accomplished. It seems whatever answer I give doesn't feel good enough due to the reaction on her face or the tone of her voice. I felt like the world was, weirdly enough, once again in balance. Just giving some reasons as to why it was right. And just because girls are typically more outspoken about their crave for compliments and self-esteem boosts doesn't mean that no guy out there has the same craving. I don't know if I'm being rational or not, but it tends to be well-known that guys cringe at this question, so I'd recommend to females to not ask it.
Newsflash: There is no right time to fall for someone. If she asks repeatedly and isn't pleased with the answers, and you are not less committed, it is because she is struggling with her own feelings, and unconsciously making you emotionally responsible for them. When someone asks you this question, it might catch you off-guard or make you feel nervous because they are putting you on the spot. Important life lesson from a simple communication textbook? Compliments will always seem more sincere and more worthwhile if they're connected to your feelings and your personal response and relationship. It happens when your life is in chaos and you're a mess. I saw a video on seduction once where the guy was saying that if a girl has to ask this you have failed at some level. She may even have only asked the question in the first place just to get you to ask it back! Not surprisingly, I felt better afterwards.
This show shocks and saddens me. Girls love, crave, need attention. It's always better than a compliment that could be given to anybody. Answer as sincerely as you can. You could say, I don't know you that well, but you seem like a really nice person. Feel free to say how you feel. Make sure she knows a you like her and b why.